Sharon O'Fallon found this in her father's papers and Deb shared it with me several years ago. As I was going through some favorite quotes and sayings for a sermon I'm putting together, I found it and thought it would be good to share.
Dear Friend;
You're going to meet an old man someday! Down the road ahead- 10, 20, 30 years- you'll catch up with him waiting for you there. What kind of an old man are you going to meet? He may be a seasoned, gracious fellow surrounded by a host of friends who call him blessed because of what his life meant to them. He may be a bitter, disillusioned, dried up old buzzard without a good word for anybody, soured, friendless and alone. The kind of old man you'll meet depends eventually on yourself. Because that old man will be you!
He is a composite of everything you do, say and think. His mind will be set in the mold you've made by your attitudes. His heart will be turning out what you've been putting in. Every little thought and deed of yours goes into this old man. He'll be exactly what you make him- nothing more, nothing less. It is up to you. You'll have no one else to credit or blame. Every day, in every way, you are becoming more and more like yourself--getting to look, think, and sound more like yourself. Live now only for what you can get out of life? The old man gets smaller, drier, harder, crabbier, and more self-centered. Open your life to others, think in terms of what you can give--the old man grows softer, kindlier, greater, and more Christ-centered. Fact is, the hidden little things in life, attitudes, goals, ambitions, desires may seem unimportant now, But, they're adding up inside where you can't see them, crystallizing in your heart and mind. They'll show up sooner than you think. It’s time to pay that old man a visit and care for him! Like a wise businessman, taking inventory of his stock, examine his motives, attitudes and goals. The product of life is of more value than merchandise. Work him over while he is still in a formative stage--before it’s too late. You'll be more likely to meet a splendid, old man. The man you'd like to be.
God bless you.
( Written by the late Richard Halvorsen, Chaplain of the US Senate.)